Baby Boy...

My baby is growing up too fast.
For the longest time, my baby has been just that, a baby. He has been slow to do a lot of things. He has tongue thrust issues and so went a long time before being able to take baby food from a spoon without just spitting it back out. Tonight he started eating Cheerios. Only you have to let him feed it to himself. He does not want to be fed his Cheerios.
He's been slow to crawl. He can get up onto his hands and knees, but the whole motion forward thing has perplexed and frustrated him. Within the last week, he has learned how to scoot himself over our tile floor to whatever has caught his attention. He pulls himself with his hands flat on the floor forward, dragging his belly and legs behind. His dirty shirt to me today was a sign I need to mop again. He used to happily lay on his blanket and play with his toys. But no more, now he will find that shiny wrapper shoved halfway under the couch.
In one more week he will be ten months old. And he is now acting like a normal ten month old. He says dadadada and babababa.
Yesterday, he gave up his bottles. That was a sad moment for me. My baby..bottle free? He hasn't been eating food all that long, how can he be tired of his bottle already? He now is constantly trying to steal his older brothers sippy cup. And now that he has had the sippy cup. The bottle just won't do. This delights the almost two year-old brother, because he sees this a free reign to share his cup and to steal his brother's cup. I am surprised the soy formula hasn't grossed out Mr. almost 2 yet.
My baby is now eating, drinking and moving about on his own.
I wonder at how tall he is. I wonder at how fast he is growing and developing new skills. He amazes me. He is going to be a joyful toddler I think. I look forward to getting to know him as his personality continues to develop. He is already a delightful child. I will focus on these things and not on how I miss my baby.


6 Comments:
He is adorable.
"My baby is growing up too fast.
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I stopped myself at the first line because I would like to make a comment based on this alone.
I say this mostly in jest, but how selfish of mummy!! Kids are like cats. They're all cute, cuddly and adorable... as kids, as kittens. But just you wait until they're bigger and start *gasp* THINKING ON THEIR OWN!
THAT'S why you said this.. hee hee.. teenagers!! nooo!!!!
My mom was a high school language teacher - french and english - refused to teach junior high for... well... age-related reasons!
OK, now back to your post...
On a personal note, I struggled with all kinds of things mostly related to dexterity, coordination etc. I was 5 weeks premature and didn't learn to walk until I was... well, I'll keep that to myself... but I was in grade 2 before I figured out how to tie my shoelaces. OH MAN... left over right... or was it right over left? Loop, around and tie... ARGHH!!! The upside was there was this cute girl in my class who was really good at a lot of things and so she could afford the time to help me learn to tie my shoes.
And she did.
Oh oh, I feel a blog post coming on...
They all do that, don't they? Grow up I mean. Whether they crawl, stand, and walk early or late, they all do it. Babies are great, and so are toddlers. Enjoy each and every stage, for they are all fleeting.
As a point of perspective...
This is my last of five children. He has been a wonderful sweet baby. As he is now moving into another phase, I am struck with the knowledge this is it for me.
I have done well, letting my children be children and I have enjoyed them at each phase they have been through.
I enjoy my children.
I will miss having a baby. There is something so amazing and sweet about a new baby.
I look forward to what is to come. I really do. I think it is healthy to allow myself to realize this is it and savor it for just a moment before the moving on.
Yeah, I'm watching my baby and wondering where the time went -- I know she's our last, too, and she's already 19 months old.
No offense to your other commenters, but I don't think it's selfish to feel this way -- to want to hang on and relish the baby moments while they last. It's not stopping them from growing up, it's just appreciating how they were when they were so little.
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